Voice 11.13.2025
Everyone is different. One of the essential tasks for any preacher, particularly when young is discovering your own unique voice. If visibility is about gaining perspective in our work, then clarifying our own unique voice as a preacher is a part of the application of that process.
We might think of growing up as the quest of every youngster to discover who they are, what they can do, and the specific contributions their voice makes to the community of conversations in which we are all embedded. As we move into our adolescent years, we begin to discover our own unique viewpoint and way of expressing it. One of the primary tasks of adolescence is differentiating ourselves from our parents, teachers, and peers. We learn how to make judgements about what is true, beautiful, and good. We also learn to internalize these decisions and to describe and defend our judgements to others. If we did not go through this process everyone would be the same and what a boring world it would be!
For those who are believers, particularly those who are considering some kind of vocational ministry, we must we aware that Teachers, Elders, Deacons Youth-ministers, and yes, even Preachers can have a disproportionate impact on how we come to view the work of ministry. The best ministry models understand what parts of the job can be “taught” and what must be “caught”. If an individual gets through adolescence with a healthy understanding of who they are as a person and what their natural abilities are then they are ready to cultivate and develop their Spiritual Gift, discerning what their role in ministry is. At this point they should be discovering their own voice, and the educational process would, ideally, work to accentuate their strengths, minimize their weaknesses, and clarify that personal voice.
This is necessary because one cannot speak honestly or articulate the message of Scripture clearly if they are trying to use someone else’s voice. When people listen to you speak, when people attend to the Word of God as you proclaim it, they need to trust your investment, your individuated incarnation of the written Word, as you represent the “Word made flesh.”
As you grow and mature, as you continue throughout a long ministry you will hopefully continue to cultivate your unique voice. It is for this reason that we work with patient diligence. This is why we study. This is how we grow. Looking back over my own many years of ministry here are some of the contributing factors that I have come to realize helped me to refine, inhabit and own the unique voice God has given me.
Opportunity
The best way to discover your own unique voice is to use it! The more you teach or preach, the more comfortable you will become with the whole process of moving from study to pulpit or lectern. Not that we should take those opportunities for granted, rather we should see them as the chance God has given for us to serve Him to the best of our ability.
These opportunities are not guarantees of success or accomplishment. No, oh no! When we begin, we all preach bad sermons. One signal difference is that when my peers and I were beginning in ministry we were given a lot of leeway, not only to succeed but to fail. Both to flourish and to falter. It takes both extremes to really grow into your own unique ministry voice. I am very concerned about where young preachers and teachers will be given the kind of long-term experience they will need to develop their own unique voice. Will they be given astute guidance during these important formative years or will they become discouraged when unduly criticized for not being ready or not being someone else?
Peers
One element that helps an individual grow into their own skin, to find their own voice is being surrounded with peers who know them and value them for who they are. To this day I have individuals I studied with and learned with that are perfectly willing to give me honest feedback, not as an instructor or critic but as a friend.
This is indispensable. We need a group that we can share our experiences with—who are having the same experiences, who have roughly the same amount and kind of experience that we have and who are in position to grow with us as we become more mature in the faith. Peers are different from the next group that provides needed feedback…that would be
Mentors
Mentors are individuals who have been there and done that. They draw from a deeper pool of experience, and their guiding contributions are grounded in hard lessons honestly learned. We need both peers and mentors. Each will have a different perspective on this process of finding and cultivating our maturing voice of ministry.
Often people who mentor us will have gone through transitional processes in which they changed or tweaked their approach to ministry due to the wisdom of experience. Peers usually walk along with us; mentors have gone before and help us to avoid some of the pitfalls that brought them difficulty or grief.
Mentors tend to approach the relationship without anything to prove. They are in the relationship for your benefit and to serve as a resource to you. We need mentors who can simply say “I’ve been where you’re at. I’ve experienced what you are experiencing. Here is how I have grown through this issue and allowed the experience to clarify who I am and to add tone to my own personal voice.”
Time
This whole discussion presumes that you will commit enough time throughout the course of your life and ministry to become in full the person and the preacher God made you to be. There are very few things that happen overnight. You will need to have time to not only fail, but to absorb and learn from those failures. You need the opportunity to try new things, to consider many options, to delve deep into your studies, and to engage in transformative conversation with as many ministry colleagues as possible.
Nothing helps us to discern our own voice more clearly than taking the time to listen to others and to conclude “Nope, that’s not me.” It is only as we grow into our unique Christ-given voice, our own personality that we really discover how to benefit and grow from all the other voices that we hear.
Plan
And here Bob ascends Soapbox. Time spent with mentors and peers pursing the opportunities of ministry requires following some kind of a plan. If schools follow curriculum and syllabi then why would we expect the post-educational process to flourish if it is ad-hoc, provisional, or even haphazard.
God needs you to be you. He has patience and everyone knows that the only way to get experience is to do the thing in question. If you want to maximize the results and show continual growth you need to be working your ministry, living your life, and cultivating your life according to an intentional plan. And I’m not talking about the basic facts of discipleship “I just want to love and serve Jesus!” That is a good start if a little naive. Once you start pushing 30 you need to really think through the issue of “How”, you aim to live, love, and serve Jesus. How will your voice contribute to the great cloud of witness without either becoming indiscernible from the voice of others or so unique that it sounds eccentric or even weird?
I wish I’d started working from a more clearly defined plan earlier in my ministry. It’s not that much would have changed—I think we each eventually become the person that God made us to be. But I can’t help but thinking that it would have been a little easier.
Concluding Thoughts
Jesus tells us that, “My sheep hear my voice.” We serve Jesus by serving His sheep. This works better —the whole operation is much smoother when we try and develop our own specific voice. The sheep will recognize Jesus. I believe that it helps them to hear the voice of Jesus in our voice if we develop our voice for the specific purpose of leading and feeding the flock. Are you speaking and being heard? Do they hear the voice of the Good Shepherd of the sheep when they hear your voice? Can they follow Him because you, the local Under shepherd of these sheep, this flock have developed your own distinct individual voice?

